Another thing that defines me is playing Volleyball. Because of Volleyball, I have become more confident. By being forced to be loud on the court, I have been able to translate that to real life and I am now quite outgoing. Also, I have made many friends from playing volleyball including a few of my best friends. I was never very good at sports, and I was very shy and self conscious. When I first told my Mum i wanted to play volleyball she thought I was kidding, as I had never wanted to competitively play a sport before. Now, she is my #1 fan and she comes to every game and tournament I have, which makes me much more confident in myself. Because of these things, volleyball is definitely a factor that defines me.
Lastly, the most important thing that defines me is my family. My parents are wild, and encourage me to let loose and be fun and confident on a daily basis as they are very loving and support me in everything I do. My grandparents, who are actually flying over from England to visit us today for their annual summer vacation in Canada, are about 23 x more crazy than my parents and are the funniest people I know. They have helped shape my identity because they have taught me so many things, and also they have given me a good sense of humor, as my Granddad still tells me a new joke everyday that never fail to make me laugh. The hardest thing about moving to Canada was leaving behind my family. The only time I get to interact with my cousins, aunts and uncles and my other family members is when we Skype, talk over Facebook or on the phone. It really sucks not being able to spend time with your family during the holidays, or even sit down and have a nice Christmas dinner with them. It has made me really appreciate the time that I do get to see/talk to them, which has shaped my identity immensely.
Lastly, the most important thing that defines me is my family. My parents are wild, and encourage me to let loose and be fun and confident on a daily basis as they are very loving and support me in everything I do. My grandparents, who are actually flying over from England to visit us today for their annual summer vacation in Canada, are about 23 x more crazy than my parents and are the funniest people I know. They have helped shape my identity because they have taught me so many things, and also they have given me a good sense of humor, as my Granddad still tells me a new joke everyday that never fail to make me laugh. The hardest thing about moving to Canada was leaving behind my family. The only time I get to interact with my cousins, aunts and uncles and my other family members is when we Skype, talk over Facebook or on the phone. It really sucks not being able to spend time with your family during the holidays, or even sit down and have a nice Christmas dinner with them. It has made me really appreciate the time that I do get to see/talk to them, which has shaped my identity immensely.
I think I need to watch a volleyball game next year, just so I can hear you be loud! It's funny how we change personalities to suit various situations. I'm glad that you've discovered a way to be aggressive and forceful, as this will help you explore other aspects of your identity and gain confidence that will carry over into new situations.
ReplyDeleteFinding something you're really good at is probably the best feeling ever, especially when you've got a godlike gift to do it and it's a sport you really like.
ReplyDeleteI can absolutely relate to your situation because at home we still eat our traditional Filipino food, we try to practice our language at home and I can personally make the connection of gaining confidence when playing sports.
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed reading this as you not just focused on one specific element that defined you, but you split it up and organized your identity in three different aspects. I can also relate to you and your traditions back In England because coming from such a different culture myself its hard to keep and make sure your doing your role In Canada and also being a part of the Canadian culture.
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